A REAL MALE BLOGGER

*Monique Voice* HEEEYYYYY BABBIES!!! I was checking out some of my newest follower's blogs and I stubbled across the blog of Nick.In.Real.Lyfe ; and I must say I was quite impressed with what I read. One entry in particular made me go "Awwwwww!!!" you know ladies, that kinda awww that makes you wish all guys where this way. It was a poem that spoke of real love, and the kind of love that's real, not contrived. Well I wanted to promote his blog and encourage some no, ALL of you to check out his blog and FOLLOW HIM!! We need more REAL MALE BLOGGERS!! So without futher adieu...enjoy this poem by Nick called "That Kinda Love"


That Kinda Love...

I dont wanna think of love as this four letter word kinda thing
the plain ol I met you so lets exchange a ring kinda thing
then a year later you on devorce court wit judge mablean kinda thing
truth be told, i want that back in the day old type of love
that i wanna be with you until we old kinda love
i want that goin from fades and kinky twist braids to
bald heads and the good wig for sundays kinda love
i want that she down for me kinda love
that when im down on one knee strugglin to keep the heat
or a place to sleep she keeps me in one piece kinda love
i also want that im down for her kinda love
even the payin for the nails and hair or
the singin bear to show her i care kinda love
But we aint focused on the materialistic...
I want that lets kick it kinda love
that random i love you office visit kinda love
that hold her close til i can feel her pulse kinda love
i want that words cant come close to telling you
that i love you the most kinda love.
But most importantly, i want that devine kinda love
that our souls intertwine while having god in our mind
thanking him for taking the time
to help me find this dream girl of mines kinda love
Finally, i want that til the end of time kinda love
that when we make it to those pearly gates
you're still mines kinda love...

Posted by NickInRealLyfe at 6:54am

Internet Dating?!

*Internet Dating__Cyber Dating__Technology Dating*

Do you do it? Know someone who does? How do you feel about it? I wanna know...

I saw this cartoon and it made me think of all the relationships or "partial relationships" that have been created through technology. With all the social networking sites, meeting someone at a local store, coffee shop, or mall seems like a thing of the past. Twitter, Skype, OovoO, Facebook, Myspace...the list goes on. But doesn't it make you think how much technology has changed us? It use to be taboo for a person to meet up with someone they met online but now a days it seems to be the norm...

I wonder if this style of dating actually works? I've often found myself in long distance relationships so technology is what usually holds my long distance situations going. My last 3 year relationship was with someone I originally met online...crazy right? That was a CRASH and BURN situtation though! Lol Well...to each is own I guess. But I thought I'd share this comic and see what you thought about it. So tell me what you think.

As always...I love you for reading and EVEN MORE for commenting!! Muahhh ;-)

You See My Name In Lights?!

If you don't you will...lol or at least that's what my prayer is. My first LOVE is and will ALWAYS be MUSIC!! I love to sing, it pretty much keeps me sane...ANYWAY! I've started a YouTube Music Channel and wanted to share it with you all. I'm going to start taking what many people have told me is "my gift" to sing more seriously, and use it.

So do me a favor by SUBSCRIBING and telling ALL your friends to subcribe as well. Leave a comment, rate...the whole nine!! Lol I'd love you long time and would really appreciate it. On another note, I'm going to an audition for MARY J BLIGE this saturday as a possible background singer!! I need your PRAYERS because I REALLY want to get this gig, it would be such a great experience!! I'll let you know whether or not I make it but between you and me...I'm really hoping I do...Well here is the page, please Please PLEASE check it out and let me know what you think!!

My Brother ; The Beastie Drummer

Hey hey hey...so I have a younger brother and ever since I can remember he has been banging on something. He used to take pots and pans out the kitchen and set them up like a drum set on our fireplace when he was like 2! Lol...he's really talented and has NEVER had a lesson on how to play the drums. It's truly a gift from God. So without futher ado...I introduce to you...my little brother...Michael Cross!!!

I Can't Believe Its Not BUTTA!!!!!

That's Smooth...But I'm Hard

If you're smooth like butta then I must be hard as rye bread...

You spread it on thick clogging every air pocket with your saturated sweet cream.

Having me think of days better than sliced bread.

Floating around in my brain when I could've sworn I was brain dead.

Dead to emotions and all feelings inside...

You leavened this whole lump and put some yeast to make me rise.

I refuse to be puddy or dough in one's hands.

Not looking to be molded or shaped into a symmetrical pan.

I wanna’ rise free, no bleach therapy.
Wheat and multi-grain fill up more paper than artificial claims

I know it may be gross but "I'm Just Saying"

What's the point of buttering me up and swallowing me whole?

When I've lost all hope in man, let alone be good for your soul.

There's mold on my edges and I'm beyond cracked and brittle.

Not ready to soften up, I'm afraid; more than just a little.

Softened up to be spewed out...

I'm sitting here reading your ingredients with much disbelief and doubt

It’s no Wonder I could be talking about bread,

But what's the big deal about needing the spread?

Having something to smooth out the rough parts

You know, take some of the burnt taste away...

Similar to a broken heart, it could help ease the pain.

To smooth out the rough patches, piece together the broken parts.

But if my heart were like bread I'd truly be the molding parts...

Tired of being stuck in this bag…needing to breathe this fresh air called life.

Just let me be, it’s ok if I'm free. I'll just be dry and good to me...

But if for only one night I could scream "I can't believe it’s not Butta"

I'd let you spray all just for your cumin pleasure...

So lay it thick in hopes of getting through; because who knows,

Maybe one day, I'll be smooth as butta too.

MARCH BDAY MADNESS!!!

IT'S MY BIRTHDAY WEEKEND RIIIGGGHHHTTT NOOOWWW!!!

Ok so as yall know my BORN DAY was MARCH 20th!! You know I had to do it big. So we started the great weekend on Friday night at the Saddle Ranch in Universal City Walk and lets just say, I didn't leave the same way I came. Hahahahaha LOL

So I love my two girls! My bestie Kristine aka Chicken!! Then the lovely miss Anastasia!! They helped me bring in my bday friday night and it was too much fun..to say the least...*falls and all* ahhahahaha...yeah I was gone yall. And shoutout to my BROTHER for being the first to call and tell me happy birthday!! (I love him...greatest lil bro ever)...*side note: if you have a sibling or siblings, love them because they will be the ones there for you when you need them most...real talk*

We ended that night reaaalllll late but it was ok because the next day was the BIG DAY and we had to do some shopping cus I had MONEY TO BLOOOWWWW *Lil Wayne Voice* LOL ;-)

That night we went to Lucky Strikes as planned and had a BLAST no other way to bowl in my opinion...I had the greatest time! The ones who cared most were there and I couldn't ask for anything more. So shoutout to Kristine, Anastasia, Montoya, JLo Lo, Lisa, Janelle, Cherish, and to the sexiest mexican I know JOSE! hahaha ;-) But here was the pic of all of us that night!

Oh and you know I had to get some BORN DAY KISSES!!! LOL hahaha Yeah buddy...rollin' like a big shot!!

I had such a great time...here are a couple more pics from the night:

So after a great night we woke up hella early to go to SIX FLAGS MAGIC MOUNTAIN!!

Best part about it is that we got our tickets FREE!! Yes, FREE!! we got hooked up by some guy in customer service...hahah gotta love it!

We got on just about EVERY ride in the park!! I swear I lost like 5 pounds walking around for like

6 HOURS!!

Yeah...I swear we were just some big kids the whole day. Until that night!! Lol we hit up Lucky Strikes in Torrance *HELLA BLACK PEOPLE* It was great!! They have karaoke and happy hour on sunday nights and we will FOR SURE be making a trip out that way next weekend because it was just too much fun!!

So in all we had a great weekend. A born day to remember for sure!! Great people, food, drink, entertainment, and FREE STUFF!! hahaha.. Can't beat that!! But MOST importantly, I had to thank God for letting me see another year. So many didn't make it to 2010 but I have and I'm thankful. 23 years young and I'm just getting started...this world ain't ready..I'm such a MARTIAN!!! ^_~

COME CELEBRATE!!

O-k-k-k!! It's about to go down this weekend!!!!!

 *why you may ask?*

BEACAUSE IT'S MY BORN DAY ON SATURDAY!!!!!

Yeah buddy!! I'm going to be 23 years young and like I told you all, I going to give you the info on where I'll be so you can come and celebrate with me and my girls!! We are going out Friday *TBD* to dance and get ooooonnnnnnnn!!! lol

Then we will have a great time at Lucky Strikes in Hollywood, CA on Saturday at 7:30pm!! We're going to enjoy some good food, drinks, laughs, and good company while we bowl then we're going to go out and run the streets of Hollywood all night!!!
So the question is:

You Down?!

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